*cartoon sleeping noises* snnnnork mimimimimi
Yes, your boundaries are still necessary even with people who do nice things for you or are really nice to you. I know sometimes when someone is really kind to you or you feel like you don’t deserve the kindness you get from someone, it makes you want to violate your own boundaries out of gratitude for them or because you’re afraid it will make them treat you differently. But in the long-term, this is only more harmful. Your boundaries are not an act of unkindness and are always relevant. And people treating you with respect and kindness is the bare minimum you deserve from others. Don’t let someone’s kindness or favours or respectful treatment make you abandon your self-worth and your needs to please them.
really and truly, it will be okay !!!
that’s enough emotions for a whole year. ciao
The earlier in the year you reblog this the better it gets
there’s nothing funnier than watching two cats stare at each other while one slowly raises their arm to strike for ABSOLUTEY NO REASON